What we are saying about ourselves, also communicates what we feel about the person we are with (unconsciously). Ultimately if you said to yourself when you dress, I want to wear something that shows I care about myself – what would you wear?
In the middle, there are women who have toiled away in roles they don’t particularly enjoy yet feel hand-cuffed to the secure income they enjoy and justify staying by declaring “It’s too late” to transition into something else they might enjoy more or that brings a deep sense of purpose.
We are NEVER meant to get there. Ask yourself ‘Where is that place?’ When you get a home, your soulmate, your health, your money, your… It’s just not true.